I think your experiences may have been fairly limited when it comes to disability issues and I really struggle to understand your point of view. This isn’t about people who may find if challenging (as most old people do) to walk short or long distances.
My 27 year-old daughter has a connective tissue disorder called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome which means that ALLher joints - jaw, shoulder, hip, knee ankle toes, fingers - literally all, dislocate easily and cause her horrendous pain. Every step hurts. She qualifies for a Blue badge because she can walk, but each step is excruciatingly painful.
My 86 year-old mother has dreadful arthritis in her knees and has limited mobility but wouldn’t qualify for a Blue Badge -she sounds like your parents - while my father has had major heart surgery which has left him with breathing problems and last Tuesday a major colon cancer operation and he does qualify.
The difference between Blue Badge holding people and ‘fit. healthy, can walk around all day people’ is actually huge and unless you’ve experienced it, as I have, you really can’t judge.
Thats the reason why there’s a stringent test for Blue Badge qualification and rightly so. Most people who are allocated a Blue Badge have to undergo quite a stringent test. Blue Badge holders are the most disabled and disadvantaged people in society.
As I’ve explained before, I have what my MS nurse calls ‘highly active MS’. I tried for at least a decade not to accept the reality of it, tried to be as positive as I could by running a 10k for charity, embarking on a drug’s trial etc.etc.
Now my illness is progressing quite dramatically. Having never broken a bone until 5 years ago, I have now broken my arm, finger and (badly) my ankle. I struggle with dizziness and I think I would now qualify for a Blue Badge but am reluctant to apply because I know how desperately people like my daughter really rely on Blue Badge spaces
My main argument is that Blue Badge holders have absolutely no choice. You mention people with children. When I would accompany my children (my Blue Badge holding daughter wasn’t disabled as a child - that came with puberty) into our local town, I could push them in a pushchair or they could walk. It really wasn’t that difficult. If your child does have a serious disability, then of course they should qualify for a Blue Badge.
Now that my daughter is 27 and is a Blue Badge holder who uses a wheelchair, there’s no way I could push her wheelchair into town, not least because I have MS myself and it’s quite hilly.
I don’t feel your comment expresses a true account of serious disability and I think you lack true understanding.
In my view, where Blue Badge holders really have to park, they really shouldn’t have to pay.