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Mum living in annexe - complaint made by a neighbour about this. Can we get in trouble?

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Motherof1and2dogs · 14/01/2025 13:40

I will try to keep this as short as possible but as much detail as I can. Myself, my husband and my Mum all decided it would be a good idea to sell our previous homes and all move in together, this was down to many reasons, however the agreement was Mum was to have her own independence and own place to live so we agreed to find somewhere with an Annexe. The place we bought was advertised as an Annexe. When we viewed the property the Annexe at the time was just being used for a business and has no kitchen or bathroom, just a toilet so it was more like an outbuilding/ garage and not a proper annexe.

We have been in the new place since October 2024. The Annexe is not yet self contained, my Mum has to use our bath to wash and has a make-do temporary kitchen until we save up to get her a proper kitchen and bathroom fitted.

I have just had a neighbour knock to give us the heads up that another neighbour of ours has complained to the council that we have someone "living in our garage". Can we get in trouble for this?

Our plan was to contact the council when was was ready to start the building process to get planning permission and then make it a self contained Annexe, and understand we would have to pay council tax on this eventually but as it's just 2 rooms with a toilet I didn't think we would need to notify anyone? It doesn't have its own address and Mum uses our address for her post.

I am not really sure what to expect. I really hope this doesn't cause too many problems for us. I don't need this right now, we don't make any noise, I have a 2 year old and I am 14 weeks pregnant. I want to cry because we both work full time jobs, we work hard, pay all our bills, we are nice genuine people and we are being targeted already. One reason we moved is because we wanted a quieter lifestyle (moved from a busy town location to a small village) and it's not been the best experience so far :(

Could someone please let me know what could happen to us in this situation. I'm so worried we are going to have to move again.

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Walkden · 24/01/2025 23:45

"No you can’t."

You mean shouldn't I suppose. In this case the mum can and is quite clearly sleeping there and as is common in many areas right now funding for public bodies is cut to the bone so enforcement action is rare...

WhistPie · 25/01/2025 00:50

Walkden · 24/01/2025 23:45

"No you can’t."

You mean shouldn't I suppose. In this case the mum can and is quite clearly sleeping there and as is common in many areas right now funding for public bodies is cut to the bone so enforcement action is rare...

Well we can make even more cutbacks and get rid of the lot, just consult the Mumsnet crowd instead, they know everything

Nantescalling · 29/01/2025 14:36

Onceachunkymonkey · 14/01/2025 13:43

I’m sorry but your poor mother, that sounds horrendous, she definitely got the worst end of that deal, how did that happen where you bought somewhere you couldn’t afford to make it basically habitable and it’s not even got planning,

yes I’d expect issues if your mother is living in the garage.

Looks like you've got the wrong end of the stick. The Mum was quite happy about her part of the house even before they moved in. OP explains further down how this building is very comfy just missing a bathroom for the moment.

SezFrankly · 02/02/2025 20:46

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 24/01/2025 17:40

Except it isn't a separate dwelling because her mum can't wash or cook properly in it - it's not considered a separate dwelling until there's a proper bathroom/shower room and a kitchen

@Ireallywantadoughnut36 initially what I thought until I started down the council websites rabbit holes 😂

Some councils declare shared houses, with one kitchen & bathroom as MDU and separate dwellings. I think though, the majority would see it the same way as us.

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