Am I being unreasonable

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Father of my daughter and recently as of July my hubby is doing my head in. I cant wait for him to start back at work. He boasts about looking forward to spending time with me and my daughter over Xmas as usually he's either working or in the gym or running. I see him three nights a week and now he's bought another PlayStation I'm lucky to get that. Fact is all he's done all holidays is watch darts football and go on his ps with his mates live. He's not helped with my daughters poor sleep at nights. Not lifted a finger round the house whilst watching me bust my are to keep the house nice. Not helped me take the decorations down as he was too engrossed in his ps. I feel greatful if he spends 15 mins here and there with his daughter while I clean. Am I moaning about nothing? By the way I don't confront him over anything as he gets way too naggy and I can't cope with it. Thanks

Is he usually like this OP or just these holidays?

You had a child and married him because?

If you don't tell him, he'll never get it! Let him nag..................

I totally empathize with your situation. It sounds frustrating to feel like you're carrying all the household responsibilities while he indulges in gaming and sports. Have you tried setting aside a specific time for chores together? That might help him engage more with both you and your daughter. Perhaps introducing fun activities like the Slope Game could act as a bonding experience? Balancing leisure and responsibilities is key!

If you don't challenge his behaviour, he won't change. You have enough to do looking after a child without running around after him as well.

Watch what he does, not what he says. If he doesn't want to spend time with you, doesn't want to spend time with his child and expects you to wait on him, what's the point?