Husband shaming when drinking

[rachelemma1]

When I drink/ I mean a glass of wine and a cocktail or tonight a glass of wine and 2 gins at Christmas with my brother, he makes undermining comments or discusses situations around which he would align to alcohol but were to do with a migraine. I feel like I can’t have a drink without him judging me or having a snide joke. I should feel secure in my marriage to enjoy myself and feel my partner is with me, wants me to enjoy myself, let my hair down etc, I do not feel like this’

How often do you drink? Is he concerned because you drink daily and he thinks it's becoming a problem?

Does your behaviour change after a couple of drinks?

Does HE have a problem with alcoholic, so seeing you drinking makes it difficult for him? Has he been in a relationship with someone that had a drinking problem?

On the face of it, it seems odd without knowing if there's a bit more behind it all. But also, your post isn't particularly easy to read - is that just the way you usually write, or the ramblings of someone that's had too much to drink?