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when strange man starts saying good morning and then he stops

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Sly1822 · 13/12/2024 20:46

Hi, there is this guy who I see pretty much every morning on my way to work. He started smiling, looking into my eyes and saying good morning. First time I was so surprised I probably did not say it back (I cannot remember), next time I tried to say it back and smile as well. The thing is I am very shy and even when I try to say it back, it comes out very quiet and probably without a warm smile ( I feel a bit overwhelmed and cannot control my reaction). There were couple more situations like this. He now stopped greeting me and ignores me completely. And it bothers me to be honest. It was nice to see friendly face every morning and I want to say "good morning" to him as well. I wonder if it is a good idea to approach him and explain that it is my shyness rather than me being rude or not caring at all? I really miss his "good morning" and smile. It brightened up my day. Shall I just say it to him? Or leave it be...

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livingafulllife · 13/12/2024 21:40

If your thinking of approaching him to explain your shy whats the difference of just walking past and say morning.
The first part of what you said looking in to each other's eyes and smiling its not romantic its normal to smile and look ones face to say good morning.
Sorry to sound harsh just being honest.

Sly1822 · 16/12/2024 09:17

Thank you for your input. And honesty! I am not expecting anything romantic tbh. I just feel bad that I behaved like towards another human that showed me kindness and friendliness. And I am not a grumpy miserable person, but I probably gave that impression.

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NotParticularly · 16/12/2024 09:19

Just start saying hello to him, surely? It doesn’t warrant approaching a total stranger to explain your apparent froideur.

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