Estranged husband seeing escorts

[Nika7509]

I’m currently going through divorcing my estranged husband. We’re still living together until officially divorced and finances sorted.
We’ve outgrown each other for years and have given each other the permission to move on by seeking new relationships, which is not easy when still living together although we are keeping these new relationships out of the house we live in for the sake of our young adult children.
He very quickly moved on, seeing an ex-girlfriend from 30 years ago.
I have recently discovered though that he has been seeing escorts/prostitutes for at least 3 years. I also found out he recently had to do an std test. I would have thought he did that to ensure not to infect his new girlfriend but he has continued seeing prostitutes after he got into this new relationship. I feel anger, disgusted, not only for his new girlfriend but also the disrespect for his own 3 daughters as these prostitutes are barely older that our 24yr old. I personally don’t feel affected too much as we have not had sex for 5yrs but I do wonder if he has been seeing these ladies all through our marriage. If so, this would alter the image I and my girls would have of him.
Should I confront him?

Why would you confront him? His actions are none of your business anymore. And I'm confused as to how you'd have found out all this information to begin with.

Move on with your life, the marriage is over and what he does with his life doesn't affect you any longer.

And why would you tell your adult children about their father's sex life? That's all kinds of wrong.

It's likely he has a sex worker habit and was paying for sex throughout your marriage. What do you hope to achieve by confronting him? Perhaps wait until the divorce is finalised if you want him to play ball.

He’s not going to care what you or your daughters think.

Dude, you are already getting rid of him, why would you get emeshed in his business?
And why on earth would you tell your kids about his sex life, that's gross.
Just keep out and be glad he is almost gone

No. You’re getting divorced. What he does and with whom is his business now. Of course you’re disgusted ( who wouldn’t be). I don’t see why his grown children would need to know about it though, what would be gained by telling them. Probably a good idea to get std tested yourself.

You need to move on. No sense in wasting your time worrying about your ex anymore. It’s time to focus on your future and what you want out of life.

Why on earth is it any of your business? Do you not have a life now? Sure he sounds revolting but you chose to have kids with him, it is up to his children what they think of him

You are not providing a community service by putting this on to then to make yourself feel better? Do you not care about them?

Don't confront him and don't let him know that you know. You're leaving him, so the fact that he is a disgusting, predatory monster is no longer your problem. Instead, gather proof and use it as leverage to get a better division of finances. After all, he's breaking the law. I'm sure he doesn't want you telling people.
Unfortunately, you have to be ruthless with scum like this. He will screw you over financially in a heartbeat. So beat him to it and preemptively protect yourself. Perhaps you could hire an investigator to get the goods on him. Then put it in a safe place where he can't find it until the financial negotiations. See what he does. If he's fair, you won't need to use it. I suspect he will not be. He will want more money, because he has an expensive habit.
Btw, yes, he probably did it while you were still a couple.