I have been with my husband for 20 years & married for 11. We have 3 beautiful children together. I have been having an affair with a woman for almost 2 years. She is everything that he’s not. She’s kind. Thoughtful. Considerate. Caring. Romantic. The intimacy is second to none. She understands my mind in ways that I don’t think that even I do.
The affair was never meant to happen. We met at work a few years previously & then reconnected last year. I have never thought of myself to be gay, or bisexual or whichever label needs to be used. I met her & instantly felt connected to her in some weird way.
my husband is a good man. He’s a good Dad. We met when I was young & I just feel like with every year that passed, we grew further and further apart & what we have in common became less & less.
I have been wanting to leave for a while now but the thought has petrified me. The main reason being the children and their security & stability. What would they think of Mummy being with a woman? Has anybody else been in a situation like this & what did you do?