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Cowboy workman threatening me

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NewLion74 · 30/08/2024 14:16

Hi everyone,

I've just had an awful experience with a painter and decorator. I'm home alone DH is out at work all day and relies on me to arrange painting work done on the house and I feel when they see a woman on her own, some workmen just take the $%%. When I initially spoke to the him on the phone he agreed I would pay by bank transfer after the painting work was done. He arrived and immediately started the hard sell, saying my gutters were leaky and all sorts of other roof work or I would get dampness etc and quoted ridiculous cash prices for them. I already had a bad vibe from him. When I said I didn't want this extra work done he wasn't happy visibly. I wasn't particularly happy with his finished painting work but he gave me bank details then I input them for the amount agreed. He kept texting me until this was done and I felt very stressed and rattled by him. He then phoned immediately to say he hadn't received the money and he wanted it in cash straight away or he would come back with his workman and undo the work! I felt so threatened as I am home alone. I checked and due to all the stress I hadn't clicked the "pay now" button on the online banking which I have done now. I let him know straight away that the money would be in his account straight away. I am now worried he will come back and strip off the work or hassle me by phone more. The final insult was pressure from him to leave a 5 star review! I am worried if I don't write him a good review he might retaliate, this is causing me so much anxiety, he really doesn't deserve anything but a 1 star! Please can anyone advise? I am so sick of workmen lately, I have had a few awful experiences. I feel if I leave a bad review there might be consequences but I want to warn others about this awful tradesman. Thanks!

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NotTooOldPaul · 30/08/2024 15:58

If he does turn up at your huse call 999 and get the police to attend. Threats like he made are totally wrong.

Terrribletwos · 30/08/2024 16:02

Get him out of your house and report him to the police for harassment. He has threatened you, report him.

BaubleDelight · 30/08/2024 16:04

I had this with 2 pushy work men who came to lay my laminate floor.The price was arranged previously,yet when they saw it was just me(my partner was out)they suddenly began upping the price,telling me other things needed to be done.When I refused to go along with it,there were a lot of "now listen here,love"(the condescending bastards).I repeatedly said my partner is in charge of the finances,so I need to wait for him to come home.I rang my partner,when he was on his way home they decided to leave suddenly 😂😂.Just tell the painter your husband is in charge if the finances and will be dealing with anything else.Dont feel intimidated.Would your husband ring him to ask him what the hell he is playing at,threatening to come around and undo all his hard work.Cheeky bastard.

Whoowhoopitstbesoundofthedapolice · 30/08/2024 16:07

What a dick! Do you have any of his threats by text? I 100% would have them up with a one-star review! Bet he wouldn't have been as cocky if your husband was there .. eugh! You could report him for the threats, and you should.

Milaender · 04/04/2025 05:07

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