I recently fell out with a friend who contacted me saying that it was all her fault, that she was sorry but was angry with with me and that I don’t need a friend like her. I felt her messages were being manipulative because she was apoplectic but also blamed it on someone or something else but never me.
I went over what happened, how I felt and i asked what she would do in my situation but never got a reply to that so I then asked what she wanted to happen, her reply was it didn’t matter what she wanted to happen that it was me that was wronged and it was up to me. I replied that it did matter.
the last message I got from her was that she was taking all the blame but it was really my fault because I had changed and that I used her.
I feel really bad because I now realise that she is probably depressed and needed me to be supportive instead I told her that her last message made me laugh because for the past few days all her messages clearly stated that she didn’t blame me and that I didn’t need a friend like her but she wouldn’t answer any of my questions and now does blame me.
Never heard from her again and she has since blocked me from every social media.
I still feel like turning up at her house to give her a hug but I also feel like a weight has been lifted without her in my life.
I don’t know what to do for the best - should I just cut my losses and leave it be?