Hi, me again!
So reading previous posts, I’m still unsure what to do.
Im still wondering if to leave this relationship. I have been in 2 minds since April as OH said he wasn’t ready to get married and aborting our child due to him changing his mind. He is 26 I’m 33. We live together and have been together 3 years. We have had a rocky time since April (when I found out I was expecting) and argued quite abit. He then planned to purpose in Novemebr, but since delayed it due to these arguments. I have bi polar so that part played some part with being able to continue with the pregnancy. My OH always spoke about children but when it came to it he said he wasn’t ready at 26 and wanted to travel. I didn’t feel stable enough to do this alone so make a decision. Since he had delayed the proposal due to a rocky few months and says he will do it when we’re in a good place. He says he loves me more then anything and wants it all with me but wants us to enjoy or time together.
I am 34 in December and I am worried that my times running out. We love each other but is that enough? Will we get a few years time and he still not be ready and I’m out of time. Is this a sign that we don’t align and I should find myself before it’s too late. It’s forever on my mind what he’s said and I want these things. Thanks