So last week, a friend invited me to join a quiz night at the local pub i used to work at, people who I worked with would also be going so I happily agreed to go and was looking forward to a nice night out. She had asked me probably 3/4 days before the quiz night was due to take place.
i completly forgot to check in with her if they were still going to the quiz night, but as i hadnt heard anything i assumed everyone was still attending, as i hadnt been told anything different. However on the day of the quiz i walked into the pub to find none of my friends there, feeling embarrased i rushed through the pub hoping noone saw me as the quiz was underway
my friend then messaged almost as soon as i left the pub, saying she had forgot to tell me that they werent going to the pub quiz and had gone somewhere else instead, she did seem really sorry and said i could meet them there instead, but i declined as i felt left out.
i feel like i am always a after thought for my friends and as she has lost her mother in law recently i have been there for her in the last few weeks offering support.
i feel a little bit upset, should i mention how i feel to her?
i cant help feel that because a hookup situation ended badly between myself and other person in our friend group i am slowly being excluded in favour of him as they have known him longer