Hi, this may be a long post so thank you if you read it.
As the title suggest really; I think there's a few things going on and if anyone has suggestions for small parts that would be lovely.
I'm generally feeling bored with life at the moment. I'm in my mid-30s with husband and one child. Almost two years ago we moved abroad (we haven't lived near family in a decade anyway) I have some friends but don't really socialise. The school mums are friendly but me or my child are never really invited to anything outside of it other than the odd birthday party.
I work every week day and one evening. Days are half days and I mostly enjoy my job; it's what I'm trained in and passionate about, but at the moment I'm a bit bored of it.
My child has sports classes four times a week (I also attend the adult's version of one sport)
To get our lifestyle we had to spend a lot of money, and are in a small deficit because of this. We knew this would happen. We accepted that it will probably take at least a year to get back on our feet again, but I'm bored of always buying the cheapest things in the shop or cutting them out completely. I don't buy myself anything as I've never really been a materialistic person. But when I have to buy a present for someone, usually a school friend's birthday, I'm scouring the shelves for something cheap but not obviously cheap.
My husband and I get on very well, but are kind of running out of things to talk about sometimes. He works from home and is struggling a little with a social life too, but is working on it.
I don't know what I enjoy, so can't choose a hobby. Again, some of this goes back to cost; as it one way or another I will need to spend money.
I am very grateful and definitely appreciate what I've got. I live in a lovely town and my family are wonderful. I try not to get down about things but I feel like I still do. I feel like if I were to mention it to anyone other than my husband, they may dismiss it as "[you] chose to move away and change jobs and everything else...!"
I don't want sympathy, I just don't want to feel so bored and like in going round in an endless loop of trying to make ends meet.
Thanks for reading so far. I may not reply to all replies but I will definitely read them.