Hi, am I overthinking? Basically feel like I want to meet up more with certain people but almost every time it comes to that it's me who is inviting to my house and organising things like dinners, drinks( we do that because we meet up not so regularly so it's nice to have smth planned a bit ) . I love all that but I wish sometimes I was invited over for dinner or drink , whatever u know , and don't get me wrong it's not that I am waiting for exact same treatment but it's nice to feel welcomed. I have mentioned before that would be nice if they can plan things too, but all I get -we need to meet up and that's it , than it's always like me who has to invite . We have kids too who love when we all meet up but I am feeling a bit down !