How do u react to people who never give back ? It's not like I am waiting for smth in return but when you are in friendships or any kind of situation I always like to make people feel welcome and happy ,I am a giver but for example I have a cousin , we meet up regularly,our kids love to play together but I have always felt that I am the one always giving , from dinners to drinks , to paying for little things, she has done sometimes but very rarely, I always thought if I invite u , would be nice to next time you the one offering , but what I learned is that mostly things will happen if I invite to my house and end up hosting , and not to compare I am the one in worse situation financially, when it comes to us she always kind of mentions she doesn't have money , bla bla but then she ends up telling me how she ordered stuff or have drinks , not that I care but makes me feel so used ,but our kids loves to play together and I love making gatherings with bits of hosting not just sitting on an empty table ,maybe I am wrong or overthinking ? But I have seen friendships where both parts are equally invested
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