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how can he do this to me :(

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ChickyChickyChooChoo · 22/03/2008 12:49

me and DP has had a massive row this morn over tidying up. if you have read my thread in health then you'll know how much pain i am in at the moment. i asked him if he could help tidy up and he said but im watching this for a second (meaning tv)
in all fairness i didnt get up untill 10:45 am but i had been awake untill 5:30 this morn so i was knackerd.
the place seems to be a right tip at the mo, no dirty but clutterd so i asked if he could help tidy it up with me.
the row then progressed and he said why dont you get of your fat arse and do it i was already doing it, i was washing his breckfast dishes etc before i even sat down and had my cuppa. i got up to a sink of dishes from breckfast mugs bowls etc. then i was seeing to ds but oh no thats not good enough according to him im sitting on my backside.
anyways, it progressed to him putting his coat on to go out so i asked (with NO attitude) if you going out can you take DS with you as i cant clean and look after him at the same time especially with the pain i am in. i can hardly stand. he said no i cant if you cant be botherd to look after your own son then its your probs i said then obviously angry, he is your son too and i just want him from under my feet so i can get it done quicker. (that sounds really horrible i know)
he reckons i was calling him a crap father so he s punched me in the face and kicked me really hard where im in pain.
he s taken MY car, Left me no money and smashed up my mobile.

im so angry at the moment but i cant stop crying either.

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posieflump · 22/03/2008 12:50

is he normally so abusive?

FoghornLeghorn · 22/03/2008 12:51

!
Why are you in pain sorry ?

Is he usually like this ? He sounds awful

MissingMyHeels · 22/03/2008 12:52

That is absolutely disgraceful behaviour - you do not deserve to be spoken to like that, by anyone, least of all your partner!

Sorry that you're going through this, you need to get out of this situation, he is abusing you

Do you have any friends or family nearby who can come over?

Youcannotbeserious · 22/03/2008 12:54

Sorry..... Let me get this straight.... the row has gone from a domestic row over washing up / minding DS (How old is he, BTW?) to you getting punched / kicked and having your mobile smashed??????????

I'd call the fecking police and get out.

I apprecicate I don't know your story / history etc., but I would.

Everyone gets ticked off with housework and kids.... fine, get a dishwasher, go our for lunch, whatever....

cheesesarnie · 22/03/2008 12:55

OMG!WHERES YOUR SON?DID HE TAKE HIM WITH HIM?
sorry capitals.

hecate · 22/03/2008 12:55

I hope you have phoned the police. He has NO right to lay a finger on you.

cheesesarnie · 22/03/2008 12:55

i wouldnt be in when he got back.is there anywhere you can go?has he done this before?

TheAntiFlounce · 22/03/2008 12:57

Police police police, then womens aid.

Carmenere · 22/03/2008 12:58

I wouldn't hang around for this to happen again. If you let this go it will happen again and again. Get out and take your ds with you.

camillathechicken · 22/03/2008 12:59

call the police and get your dad/ brother/ big bloke round to help pack his stuff and give it to him when he gets back

no excuse for punching you in the face

allgonebellyup · 22/03/2008 13:00

he punched you in the face???????

Then kicked you?

Get out. QUICK.

posieflump · 22/03/2008 13:01

where has she gone? Hope you are ok xxx

JodieG1 · 22/03/2008 13:04

Phone the police and leave him.

pooka · 22/03/2008 13:05

POlice. COntact your family or friends. Get them round.

GryffinGirl · 22/03/2008 13:05

[sock] Please, please get out of there. You need to call the police.

Is there somewhere you can go with DS? Call Woman's Aid if not

Carmenere · 22/03/2008 13:05

Nothing you could ever say or do could justify his attacking you, do you hear me? there is no excuse for his behaviour. He is just a pathetic human being who deserves contempt from you and dealing with by the authorities. Do you want your ds to grow up thinking that it is ok to be violent as a response to hearing something that bothers you? Do you want your sweet little boy to grow up to be a wife-beater like his dad?

lucyellensmum · 22/03/2008 13:12

WTF - has this come out of the blue? I really think you need to get someone there with you for when this bastard comes home. I dont think you should leave, but i think you should phone the police, get evidence and get him out. Has he taken your son? I hope not. Please please please phone the police - i dont know what is going on, but he sounds pretty dangerous to me

exscuse the slight highjack - allgonebellyup - how are you ?

Carmenere · 22/03/2008 13:12

Please come back, am worried.

cheesesarnie · 22/03/2008 13:13

me too.
anyone know who op is in rl?

lucyellensmum · 22/03/2008 13:13

I should clarify, the reason i dont want you to leave is because you need your home, of course if he cannot be made to leave then you might have to consider this.

camillathechicken · 22/03/2008 13:17

agree wtih LEM and posted similar

do not leave the house ! he should be doing the leaving

Youcannotbeserious · 22/03/2008 13:22

CCCC... Are you still on line?

Just please remember that his behaviour is not reasonable / normal or acceptable....

He does sound dangerously unpredictable to do that to you over such an innocuous row....

Please consider having someone there with you. The police will be really understanding and helpful if you talk to them.

Hope you are OK.

camillathechicken · 22/03/2008 13:30

chicky, were you recently posting as drivingmisshannah?

TheAntiFlounce · 22/03/2008 17:10

i hope, I really hope, that you have taken action, and this will cease to be a domestic violence issue ... before it becomes a child protection issue.

TheHedgeWitch · 22/03/2008 18:09

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