Met my Partner almost 4 years ago, similar interests, some not but we enjoy everything together.
We came from different cities and he now lives up north with me and our one year old... the last 6 months have been really trying... he's so loving towards us and does everything he can for us, gets stressed too, we both have stressful jobs too though.
He is depressed, I've tried to get him help but to no avail. He now snaps at me, slams doors and leaves the house... it's making me feel uncomfortable and when I try and explain this he says "he's not allowed to show emotion" that's not the case, I am always here to comfort him but when he snaps infront of the baby and just his low moods in genera really make me feel anxious... I've got tension pain everywhere.
I don't know what to do... I feel uncomfortable in my own home. I don't know what kind of mood he's waking up to.
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NaatQ968 · 23/01/2024 19:06
AllFunAndGamesUntilYoureRunningForTheLastTrain · 23/01/2024 19:15
When you said you’ve tried to get him help….is there none available, or is he not keen in either speaking to the GP, trying medication or talking to a counsellor?
If it’s a case of him not being willing, that would change the advice people would give.
if there is no help available on the NHS is there anything through the company he works for or is private an option?
DiamondGazette · 23/01/2024 19:20
Surely medical information would be confidential though? Even if the management need to know about it. Anti depressant therapy can be really helpful.
AllFunAndGamesUntilYoureRunningForTheLastTrain · 23/01/2024 19:49
You can self refer in a lot of areas, curious though, on what grounds would an employer need to know their employee was taking AD? You don’t have to tell your employer even, never mind the rest of the company.
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/talking-therapies-medicine-treatments/talking-therapies-and-counselling/nhs-talking-therapies/
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