Hi everyone
I guess I just wanted to rant and hopefully receive some advice
I've split from my partner (who is also the father of my two children)
The split wasn't toxic
It was simply something that was a long time coming
I've felt quite unhappy for a while
I did 'try' to break up with him previously. He wasn't having it. He expressed to me that he isn't one to just quit, until he has tried everything
So now every thing has been tried on both of our parts and it just isn't working. So we have agreed to call it quits.
I am deeply saddened and I wish things could have been different
so I guess my question is... what do I do?
how do I detach myself from someone I am still living with (its going to be a while before any of us move out)
It sounds crazy but I wish it ended toxic, I wish something happened thats made me hate him
I feel like it would be a big push for me to just grieve quickly and move on
But that is not the case
I am absolutely heartbroken
what do I do?