I've been taking my little one to swimming lessons since the last week of June. There's been the odd session where he's participated but overall he just wants to do his own thing. The last session we had, he protested through out as he didn't want to be involved and just wanted splash around and walk around on the block in the water.
Since we've started we've been so inconsistent with the sessions, not even attending 2 in row some weeks because we've been away or something's came up. The next 2 months we only have 2 sessions back to back, the rest we're in, not in, in etc.
I just wondered if anyone else has been or is in the same situation and can give some advice.
I'm unsure whether to keep persevering and hope that one day he'll start participating again or knock it on the head for the time being. I think being 2 next month and the age in which he has started to become very strong willed and stubborn doesn't help lol. I don't want to give up as he's such a water baby but I don't wnat to force him. I just thought it would help learning a bit of water safety because he's very confident in the water. He doesn't mind being dunked under, he's confident enough to walk and play/slide in to the water on holiday. He loves running at the waves at the beach but maybe because we're not consistent enough and usually when he's in water other than his swimming lessons that he doesn't understand it's a group thing when he goes.
Do I try and explain to him whilst we're there that he needs to be involved with the group and just put up with the protesting and him shouting no and hope it gets better or let him do his own thing and get him involved when he feels ready?