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mmm. they dont know our actuall addy but they know the area where we live. neither of the parents drive, but the rest do. and we live about 15mins away by car.
DP is very supportive. he hates going in the office sum days, and he phones me every hour and half / 2 hours to see im ok.
his family took the huff because we wouldnt move in with them when DS (10 months) was born. we had our own flat, (which was rented off his Uncle to us. we done loads of work there for him, new kitchen, bathroom, and windows etc (we have home improvements business) and it was a huge 3 bed flat with 2 huge bedrooms and a Box room (which wasnt that small!!) we were really really happy. the reason his mum and dad wanted us to move in with them is because in their words "what if hannah doesnt cope with a baby??" in other words because i was 18 haveing DS (im 19 now be 20 in september) i was a young teen mum who needed all the help i could get
anyways obviously we said no thanx we' ll be fine and your only up the road (walking distance) and so is my mum, your only a phone call away.
we kept having phone calls at midnight and 1 in the morn off them, asking and asking. untill in the end we lost our patience and told them we dont need any help we're doing fine. and if they carry on we'll change our numbers etc. next thing we knew we has Social services coming around, saying that they ve been told we mite need a bit of help and that im not coping with the baby blah dee blah but when they came in and they had a look around, they cud see it was all fine and was impressed that at my age having my own business etc and said that there was no cause for concern.
we then phoned his parents to see wat the hell was happening and they said oh we just thought u'd take help off them cos you wont take it off us. i had his mother on the phone by 7 am every morning wanting to come down and bath MY baby (i was bathing him btw he has bath bottle story and bed in that order lol) Then when dp was in work they started to phone me saying that he was up their house and he was leaving me and he s sending someone down to start packing his stuff, this went on for ages then they did it one day when DP was home ill from work and he was sitting next to me whilst they were saying it! obviously we told them we dont wanna speak to you again, then a few weeks later an eviction notice came thru, we had to get out of our home with a 3 month old baby.
they told us we dont wanna see the baby he can make up his own mind if he wants to make contact when he s older. we hadnt stopped them seeing DS, my mum used to drop him off up there for us and pick him up 2 hours later and this was 2 to 3 times a week!!
now its got to the point where they realize they are missing out, DPs sister who is a hair dresser has even told one of my friends (who at the time didnt know what had gone on) to tell me to watch my back, and she text it to me, DP uncle has had to be pulled off my DP when he turned up in our local pub (after we had movd)
DPs sister cant have children of her own so his parents only hope of grand kids was us but they took it too far and we even lost our home over it, and even now im living in fear
sorry this was so long but i thought id tell you the whole story, and i apologise for my spelling as i havent proof read.!