Hi all. I am looking for some advice please on a situation I am currently experiencing. I went on a couple of dates with a guy back in January/February of this year. We got on great, had a good time and did sleep together. After a couple of weeks he told me we should leave things there as he wasn’t in the headspace for a relationship and didn’t commit. A week later, he reached out and asked to see me again so I obliged thinking maybe he had regretted finishing things so promptly. Nope, he slept with me again and then ghosted me for over 2 months. I was really shocked by this behaviour as when with him in person he almost seemed infatuated or something, very attentive etc and affectionate. I then received a text at the end of April out of the blue from him asking how I was etc. He then once again asked if I wanted to meet up. I said sure but I was going on holiday and could he wait until I was back. He said that was fine (it was only a week). So I went on holiday, got back, messaged him to make plans and again for ghosted. So after this I decided to just try to move on. Now this week, after a further 3 months he text me again asking if I was up for meeting up. I replied saying yes, got no response. I sent another text the next day saying ‘when would you like to?’ Knowing it would be ignored as well and I was right! So I am now utterly confused as to why the guy who didn’t want me back in February has come back a couple of times to ask if I am up for meeting up and as soon as I say yes he then ghosts me and never follows through? What is this behaviour all about? Why bother texting me in the first place. It is now 6 mOnths since our first date.