It is a very long story so I will cut out the details, but last year we had to go through a social services investigation after my step mother in law maliciously reported us.
We have a very limited relationship with them, and she has only seen our children 3 times in her life. She has mental problems, and also I think, is a little jealous of us.
After a meeting with our health visitor and GP the case was closed as they saw that there was no need to be involved.
It was a horrible time for us and has caused much emotional turmoil in our extended family.
We thought the matter was over and done with until we were told by my FIL that his wife had been in contact with the social worker since, who had read to her pretty much word for word what he put in our report.
This includes very personal things, and many things that I would not ever want her to know about us. She is now using these things against us in horrible ways.
I am certain he has breached all kinds of laws, but I have no idea how to put in a complaint or who to ask for advice.
I know it's a very odd situation so don't expect any of you to be able to offer advice from experience, but I am just at a loss.
And to negate any assumptions you may have we are not an 'estate family' of alcoholics or anything of the sort. Just a hard working happy family who have had some crap to deal with, and are very very angry at how an agency that purports to protect has actually messed things up for us.