My partner and I have been together for 5 years. There is an age gap between us and we weren't very public about us, out of fear of judgement. We had a distance relationship and lived nearly 4 hours apart. Because of work we hardly got to see each other. But in 2021 I left home and came to move with him.
When we first started "talking" he would never call me when he was at home, facetime and his messages would be hours apart. I did question him on this and he just said he had bad signal at home. But last year I found out that he was still living with his now ex when we were dating. I confronted him and he got so mad about it. He said they were separated but just living together untill he found his own place. I understood this but still only calling when he was out of the house just don't sit right.
His son hates me and ex has said some harsh things to my partner about me. Somthing doesn't seem right to me still why would they be so upset at me and him if they was already separated.
Am I just being paranoid? I want to ask him about it all as its eating away at me. But don't want a massive row.
Any advice would mean a lot x