My girls are 8 and 6 and with a 2 year old ds to contend with in the mornings, getting sorted for school is usually chaotic. I sort out most stuff the night before, but just recently have been getting a tad hacked off with it being MY job all the time to remember all the sports kit, swimming gear, library books etc.
At what age did / would you hand over the responsibility to the children and how did you get them to remember what they needed and when?