PREGNANCY AND WEDDINGS????

[igglepiggles]

me and my dp have been engaged for 1 year and 1 month we ve been trying to arrange getting married etc i dont want a church wedding but i want to get married in a hotel or summing like that, we ve worked out that we can do it which we want late this year or early next year then comes the BUT ...
we wanna start trying for another baby around next christmas time. now i dont wanna rush the wedding etc but i feel everything could go wrong which usually happens to me, am i trying to hard with the planning or shud i put wedding/baby on hold for a bit longer??

well our ds is 8 months. im worried about booking some where i dont want second best but i dont wanna be preggers during the wedding and wiv my luck summing wud go wrong trust me!! lol

I organised my weddin gin a week, literally

Just book it for say this autumn, and start trying either just before (so you wouldn't be showing) or just after.
Weddings are NOT complicated! All you're doing is arranging to sign a legal document. If you also want a big party at a hotel, all you're doing is telling the hotel to organise it and sending out some invitations. Forget all the magazines and pressure, just do it!

A WEEK!!!!!!!!!

wen i said it will go wrong i meant with family!! we dont spk to any of my dp family so he ll have bout 5 ppl there and id have bout 150 . thats wat im getting so stressed about, and is why we ve waited a year already!!

Hi igglepiggles

I'm getting married in april and will be 18 weeks pregnant.

Not how we planned it, but very grateful as we were planning to start to start fertility treatment after the wedding and now we can spend the money we had put aside for it on a honeymoon instead!

We only started planning our big day just after christmas (in a posh hotel, civil ceremony, big dinner and then dancing etc etc) and its been surprisingly easy. Much easier to organise than a summer wedding when you have to compete with all the other couples. It also feels nice that our wedding will be the first of the year for most of the guests rather than one of many over the summer.

I guess what I'm suggesting is that you could try for early this year - there's really good last minute availability at some pretty good venues.

Good luck whatever, I'm so over-excited about wedding!

congrats on the pregnancy and good luck with the wedding!!!

i just dont know where to begin with the planning we ve viewed a few places and the colour scheme etc, i know who will be my brides maids etc but my dp hasnt got any one to be his best man, he s lost ties with most of his friends thru them moving away etc etc and didnt really have that many to begin with, then he was gna ask his cuz but now we dont spk to any of his family, its a very tricky situation. i feel bad talking about it to him cos he s only got me and my family i dont wanna make him feel like im rubbing it in or anything not that hes that type or any thing but it does put me in an awkward situation. if he had it his way we d be running away to do it or going abroad which i dont want. its really stressing me out, planning a wedding shud be fun and exiting not a chore, i think im using the planning for our next baby as a bit of an excuse to pospone which i DONT wanna do

thank you hanaflower

we need sum sort of comp between us...

i was engaged for six weeks, and my wedding was lovely, the full works, my husband lived in france and only came back a week before the wedding. so we actually arranged everything in four days, it can be done, everyone of our friends said it was the best wedding they ever went to. it was at shakespeares church stratford upon avon so it wasn't even as if we had to compromise on a location.I had 5 beautiful bridesmaids too. Just go for it. it will be brilliant.
i also found out i was pregnant within that six week period then had a miscarriage two days before. and it was still fab. Just do everything at once like an all inclusive package!

We organised our wedding in four weeks including the banns going up etc and included a small reception ( no dance) after the ceremony.
I gave birth a month later.
You could always hold a reception/celebration party much later when you have money/energy so don't worry.
Good luck with your future!