Me and my dp had a massive argument with his family back in august. the argument was over them interfering to the extreme and i mean the extreme. his mother didnt think it was a good idea me being on my own with the baby, she said "afterall u r a young mum" etc. kris's sister cant have kids so we was their only chance to have a grandchild, and i think because im young they thought id just let them bring him up. his parents wanted us to move in with them even tho we had our own place. now because we said thankyou for the offer but we are a family now and we ve a lovely flat of our own they started giving us abusive phone calls, we was threatend by them to "watch our backs" then they got the rest of the family involved saying it was us that wouldnt let them see ds, so dp's uncle who we was renting off threw us and a 2month old baby out. they then turned around and said they didnt want to see their only granchild. we havent done anything wrong. we ve even been to police cos they was looking for us. its sounds like im making it out to be all them but this is the truth, they wont leave it alone i ve spoken to them a few times asking to sort it out and all they say is elwyn can decide when he s old enough if he wants to see them, but wat if it does get that far and they start telling him exactly wat they saying 2 everyone that it is us they ve told the rest of the family that it is me and on christmas day they sent loads of txt msg to us calling me all the names u can think of, i dont wanna change my number because if they do want to sort it out i ll be blamed for them not being able to contact us. im so sick of it all, i really do wish that they would rot in hell now. cos i ve had enough its not fair on me and my family.
i dont think there is anything i can do now. i ve tried so many times to sort this out when i didnt start it and havnt done anything wrong.