I am writing on here out of desperation. and looking for any advice and guidance as im feeling guilty, worried and unsure to what should i do.
My older sister have a massive drinking problem she also takes prescription drugs and medication at the same time. She also has 2 kids- one of them is only 2 years old. Her husband is also an alcoholic and is dragging her down. Problem is that she lives in another country and i have young family, job, and mortgage to pay so i cant just fly back to be there for her. I have tried talking to her many times and offering her to come over and stay here so she is not alone but she doesn't want to talk or come as she doesnt want to leave her husband which is also an alcoholic and he is dragging her down but she still doesnt want to leave him. There has been a time where i was extremely worried about the safety of the kids so i had no choice but to call child services on her. It helped her to stop drinking and sort it out, but unfortunately it didnt last very long shes back to where she was. Now shes at the point where i ring her and all i can hear shes swearing and screaming at her kids, shouting that her daughter is useless and that she hates her if front of her.i say that she needs help but shes screaming that i need to stop telling her what to do. Its just breaking my heart. I feel sorry for the kids , but feel helpless because im 3000 miles away. What should i do? What is the right thing to do? She doesnt have anyone else there that could help her, but she doesnt even want to be helped, im just worried about the kidsðŸ˜ðŸ˜