ds(14) has posh GF who goes to an all girls school. a classmate was having a coming of age and THURSDAY ds said "mum i need a suit am going to a dance"
he doesnt tell me what kind of dance, event, or suit he needs and isn't forthcoming with getting me the information.
anyway i invite GF to come shopping to make sure we get right stuff - yesterday.
i forfeited an plans for my saturday night so i could be on hand for ds should he need it.
ont her way there he was panicing that we were late ...literally y 5 mins
we got there to a dance where he wouldnt know anyone from this school - all the beautiful girls in their ball gowns and tiaras - parents in bow ties etc etc
he didnt wan to get out of car - i told him to go see if he could see his GF - he walked past the place and back again and got back in car!
i told him to go INSIDE and i would wait for him - but to come and let me know he is ok.
i waited and he didn't come out
he told me it finished at 11 i went to get him he wasn't there - i didnt know wha to do - dh phoned me 25 mins later the GFs mum had dropped him home.
then DH started telling me that ds had indeed made those arrangement - to get him "if he called" which is untrue.
this morning spurred on by this final straw on camels broken back i proceeded to tell my three teenagers how unhappy i am with them expecting me to be a god damned taxi but pulling a face when i ask them to do anything - had hol mother of a cow at ds
am not speaking to dh either - and i dont do not speaking as you cal tell!
anyway, DD has just come in with a homemade card which is decorated with glitter and says sorry on the front with a ovely message inside from th three kids. i know it all her idea - shes a girl and girls think like that
why are boys so pants? rhetorical. am not the fucking maid arrrrgh
i stomped to bed at 8.30am - i might get up and saunter around and see what comes of that.