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i need some advice

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s3xysmiles · 17/01/2008 18:48

first time on here .. got recommened this site through a friend .. the advice im lookin for is for my sisters children .. she had them removed from her care a yr or so ago .. and have been placed with the father and his new wife ...the mother of the childrens dad has told my sister that the eldest boy aged 7 is bein made to eat dog biscuits and givin him cold baths makin him wear pink and wen its cold takin him out in just a T shirt ... my sister heard all this from the kids dad's mother and sister ... i have rung his mother and confirmed to me on phone the same... my sister wants me to fight for her son as there is nothin she can do due to havin them removed from her care awhile back... i would love to take him on and be his carer .. but dont really know wat steps to take ... some advice would be much appreciated ... thank you in advance

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wannaBe · 18/01/2008 13:02

ok, firstly, how do the grandmother and auntie know all this? Have they actually seen the child being fed dog biscuits? or has the child told them he's been fed dog biscuits - is it possible he just pretends they're dog biscuits?

As the child has been taken away from his mother, it is entirely possible that he has some emotional problems, is it possible that he's not actually happy living with his father/new wife and has told his granny that they feed him dog biscuits in the hope he won't have to live there any more?

I'm not for one minute saying that this can't be happening, but there are lots of things that could be going on. Presumably if ss have been round they will have talked to the boy in question?

Fanargadeb · 18/01/2008 13:06

a little boy in my area was killed buy his step father after being treated badly, he was only a year old and his step dad was picking up by his ears etc kicking him and wiping his face in his dirty nappys. he d been thrown against walls his mother just watched it happening! why didnt SS act then they had been called loads of times by neighbours but nothing was done and he was killed, u mite have seen it on the news his name was Aaron. SS just do nout. but id have thought a 7yr old would have told a friend or teacher????

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s3xysmiles · 18/01/2008 13:07

ok .. the grandmother was told but her ex-husband who visits the boys every month .. she told me he saw it .. i dont know if he was contacted by SS after the grandmother reported it the first time round .. i think the SS need to go back to the grand parents and find out more info .. as they have a lot .. i just feel so helpless , dont know wat to do

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s3xysmiles · 18/01/2008 13:11

yeah thats wat im sayin so many cases are over looked .. and SS just do nout .. thats why i thought id come on here to see if there was anything else that can be done

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wannaBe · 18/01/2008 13:11

hmmm. imo if they were abusing this child it's unlikely they would be doing it in front of people.

and it does sound a bit like chinese whispers to me. the ex-husband who told it to the grandmother who told it to you.

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s3xysmiles · 18/01/2008 13:16

well the grandmother told my sister ( the boys mother ) .. who then txt me askin for my help in gettin her son out of there .. as she dont stand a chance fightin for them herself from losin them b4 .. i then rang the grandmother who confirmed wat my sister had txted

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OverworkedAndUnderpaid · 18/01/2008 13:21

So your sister was that desperate she text you?

Sorry, I do believe you, but there's so much that just doesn't ring true for me.

I hope if there's anything going on, that your nephew is safe.

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s3xysmiles · 18/01/2008 14:16

SS has just rang me back .. sayin .. that wat ever investigations happen they wont be tellin me about cos i dont have parental rights .. and if my sister wants him to live with me .. then she has to seek advice on gettin court orders and so on

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wannaBe · 18/01/2008 14:33

ey? your sister had the children taken away from her, and social services are saying it's up to her to decide who they live with? sorry but

Tortington · 18/01/2008 14:37

how do mother and sister knwo this is going on?

wannaBe · 18/01/2008 14:42

custy, according to the op, the mother's ex husband went round there and saw it for himself, he then told the mother, who told the op's sister, who texted the op, who rang the mother...

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s3xysmiles · 18/01/2008 14:53

grandmother was told by her ex-husband who visits the boys every month.. the grandmother told my sister (the 7 yr olds real mother ) .. and shes asked me to try help ..

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OverworkedAndUnderpaid · 18/01/2008 14:53

who swallowed the spider... that wriggled inside her..

Tortington · 20/01/2008 01:15

why does the grANNY's ex visit the kids?

do you mean your grandad?

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