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Islamic/Muslim parents gift advice please

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Tashyy · 02/07/2022 17:25

Hey! I have a work colleague who is due a baby, the family and colleague are Muslim. I have some ideas for gifts but want to make sure nothing would offend ( Eg not allowed alcohol in the hamper for parents) Could you please brainstorm me some sweet ideas for a baby girl. I’ve found a Gorgeous baby Quran and necklace set however unsure if such can be accepted from me as I’m not within the community.

any help or advice to make a special gift for my wonderful colleague would be Amazing please :)

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OneEyedPenguin · 02/07/2022 17:28

Can't you just buy a nice dress for the baby and a bunch of flowers for the mother?

DefiniteTortoise · 02/07/2022 17:29

OneEyedPenguin · 02/07/2022 17:28

Can't you just buy a nice dress for the baby and a bunch of flowers for the mother?

That sounds perfect to me OP :)

Tashyy · 02/07/2022 17:33

I did think of this, do you know if it would have to be a long dress covering the shoulders and ankles for a baby?

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Honaloulou · 02/07/2022 17:33

OneEyedPenguin · 02/07/2022 17:28

Can't you just buy a nice dress for the baby and a bunch of flowers for the mother?

Yup, I'd do this.

Their religion isn't the most interesting thing about them.

(I'm a Muslim mum who would be Hmm at a Quran if you would usually buy babies something actually useful)

Tashyy · 02/07/2022 17:37

Sorry don’t think I explained properly, it was a baby interactive one I was looking at xx

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OneEyedPenguin · 02/07/2022 17:40

do you know if it would have to be a long dress covering the shoulders and ankles for a baby?

Babies don't have modesty rules. Buy whatever dress you think looks nice.

You're over thinking this OP.

Azandme · 02/07/2022 17:42

Definitely overthinking.

Outfit for the baby, nice toiletry gift for mum. Pretty non secular card.

My inlaws are Muslim.

Carol1980 · 02/07/2022 17:45

Buy what every new mum needs.... a myhummy/ euan the sheep or similar, failing that a lovely dress or vouchers for next etc.

If you want to go a bit further and there are folk putting in, why not get a family photo shoot ? For when the baby is here

Sistanotcista · 02/07/2022 17:45

It’s lovely that you have tried so hard to be inclusive and inoffensive. Your colleague is lucky to have a friend like you!

Brummiebird443 · 02/07/2022 17:46

Agree with pp, you're overthinking it. Stick with a lovely baby outfit and sverve the interactive Qur'an, I say this as a Muslim. If you're unsure about an outfit how about something like bibs, blanket, baby vests or baby grows?

DefiniteTortoise · 02/07/2022 17:47

I do think your overcaution is sweet OP. I agree that you sound like a nice friend.

Lalosalamanca · 02/07/2022 17:49

Lol do you buy your Christian mates a bible for their newborns.

KittenKong · 02/07/2022 17:50

Tashyy · 02/07/2022 17:33

I did think of this, do you know if it would have to be a long dress covering the shoulders and ankles for a baby?

Are you joking?

Survivingmy3yearold · 02/07/2022 18:08

Honestly, I would give a lovely treat for mum (flowers, nice smellies etc) and/or a gift card for Amazon or a local big supermarket Smile We had so many well meaning gifts for DDs when they were born and so much of it didn't or hardly got worn/used. The best gift was the £50 Tesco gift card we got from DPs colleagues as we were able to go in and get things we hadn't been given and used some for clothes when DD2 grew out of newborn and we were even able to get ourselves a couple of treats too.

saraclara · 02/07/2022 18:16

It's nice of you to be considerate, but just buy whatever you'd get anyone else in the same circumstances. Just no alcohol.

As a pp said, your colleague isn't defined by her religion. She's just a person.

Quirkycarrot · 02/07/2022 18:33

Clothes (or money!) for the baby is a standard gift amongst Muslims. An additional gift for the mother is a nice touch- flowers are probably the easiest.

Any 'religious' element to the gift would be a bit cringe but it's nice that you're checking. Modest dressing only applies to older girls.

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