I have been with my partner for 14 years. We have no children together but he has raised my son since the age of 11. We now have a Grandson. I have been bored for some time. We rarely have sex, don’t talk much anymore etc etc. Everyone thinks we are the perfect couple and in some ways we are as we get on as friends but the spark has gone. We did have a big argument which is very rare a few weeks ago as he told me he has to watch porn to get in the mood. I did tell him then that I wasn’t happy but the next day it was like it had never happened.
I have met another guy who I feel I could have something with. We started off as friends but have recently taken it further. He is single, same age as me and similar values and upbringing. He doesn’t promise me the earth or sweep me off my feet. He is just honest and says he can see a future with me if that it what I decide I want too.
I just have no idea what to do. If it wasn’t for the hurt I would cause not only my partner but my family then I would walk tomorrow. Has anyone been in this situation and can offer advice please?