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Would you be annoyed?

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m1r14m · 30/01/2022 11:59

Hi, not sure I've posted this in the right thread as not sure what it would go under to be honest. But would you be annoyed if, you've gone for a lovely date night with your fiancé, your mums watching the children for a few hours for you to go out for the date night. You get home and decide to have a few drinks before heading to bed, nothing crazy. Your partner says he will follow you up to bed in 10 mins and then you wake up a few hours later and he's not in bed like he said he would be, you go down stairs and he's no where to be seen. He's legit up and left in the middle of the night and switched his phone off.

My partner did this last night and I can't tell you how angry I am. He supposedly left and met friends, but didn't bother to even text to let me know he wouldn't be there if the baby woke and I woke.

I'm furious and he doesn't think it's that big a deal so no apology no nothing. I just think it's a blatant lack of respect

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thefirstmrsrochester · 30/01/2022 12:04

Bizarre behaviour and utterly disrespectful. He’d be an ex-fiancé if it were me on the receiving end of this.

YellowLemonz · 30/01/2022 12:05

Yeah I'd be pissed off

m1r14m · 30/01/2022 12:22

@thefirstmrsrochester

Bizarre behaviour and utterly disrespectful. He’d be an ex-fiancé if it were me on the receiving end of this.
I don't know what to think to be honest, zero respect. He's never done anything like this before but said he was drunk and being an idiot so apparently I should just be okay with that? I told him no and if he wants to act like a child he can go live back with his mum cause I'm not willing to put up with it! I'm absolutely livid
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m1r14m · 30/01/2022 12:23

@YellowLemonz

Yeah I'd be pissed off
Apparently I'm wrong for being annoyed but annoyed is an understatement
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LiG123 · 30/01/2022 12:35

Why did he turn his phone off?

This would make me very suspicious

m1r14m · 30/01/2022 12:52

@LiG123

Why did he turn his phone off?

This would make me very suspicious

No idea, probably because he knew I was going to ask him why he left without saying anything, when I woke up and realised he wasn't here I messaged him to ask where he was and then phoned and it went through, I then tried again like 10 mins later and it went straight to voicemail. No idea what to think tbh
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wavecatcher · 30/01/2022 12:54

That's awful behaviour and weird! I would ask for it to be moved to relationships for more advise.

Has he done this before? It's very suspicious

JellyinaWelly · 30/01/2022 13:01

When did he get home and where did he go or claim to go?

m1r14m · 30/01/2022 13:07

@wavecatcher

That's awful behaviour and weird! I would ask for it to be moved to relationships for more advise.

Has he done this before? It's very suspicious

How do I ask for it to be moved, I've never done that before🤦🏽‍♀️🤣 and nope he's never up and left in middle of the night without saying anything!!
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m1r14m · 30/01/2022 13:07

@JellyinaWelly

When did he get home and where did he go or claim to go?
He got home at like 5.30am and said he had been at his friends from footballs house
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TheWeeDonkey · 30/01/2022 13:24

Friend, dealer or booty call?

Either way dodgy behaviour.

m1r14m · 30/01/2022 13:31

@TheWeeDonkey

Friend, dealer or booty call?

Either way dodgy behaviour.

Agree!! Told him it's not on and clearly a lack of respect but he doesn't seem to care cause guess he sees it as he's just gone out to meet someone
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LiG123 · 31/01/2022 07:08

This would 100% have broken my trust. He'd regret ever going out to meet however he met.

I want to see the messages from however asked him for sure

cookiemonster2468 · 31/01/2022 07:24

This sounds extreme but it would be a deal breaker for me, I would end the relationship. I couldn't put up with that kind of nonsense and the fact he's done it once shows a lack of awareness - it will happen again.

hellcatspangle · 31/01/2022 07:28

I'd ask to see his messages from that night making the arrangements. If he refuses (or says they were deleted) you'll know he's up to something.

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