Friends husband has always been flirty. I feel like it's clumsy, drunken, stupidity rather than actually cheating but I wouldn't know tbh
He has flirted when drunk with most of our group of friends. I get the feeling friend turns a blind eye and must know. I haven't brought it up cause I think she'd feel embarrassed
Anyway, the husband was randomly texting me last night but some of the texts were veering towards flirting and I shut it down once I realised.
It leaves me feeling ick, as I engaged in the texts in a friendly, "what's new with you" type way (for context it started with a relevant question to something day-to-day that had occurred recently, rather then completely out of the blue). I will never do the polite, friendly texting bit again because I think the messages were veering towards suggestive about 2 texts before I realised and now I feel awful about it
I feel like I want to confront the husband and say what the hell are you doing? But I don't know that it would change any of the behaviours, would probably just keep it away from me.
I don't want to talk to my friend about it as I just don't feel like that would result in anything productive. I genuinely think she'd prefer not to know, but I can't know that for sure. They're a really lovely couple who have a lot of fun together
Would you want to know if it were you? Do you think it's worth having a chat with the husband about it?
Or just leave well alone and try to avoid any stupid flirtiness in the future