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[Blueismine2020]

Hi, I have nowhere left to turn, my partner does not want kids with me. He has had the snip after having 3 kids already. There is a 16 year age gap and things were great with us at the beginning. He never told me straight away until about 2 years in that he had the snip around 15 years before us. We have been together 7 years and in the last 4 years or so I feel we have nothing in common. I long for children but he has made it clear he does not want to foster or adopt. His 20 year old daughter lives with us and honestly it is more like a hotel for her. She gets away with murder in his eyes and does nothing round the house. Is that why he doesn't want anymore? All my money from working goes to his account and I can't afford to move out. Please please help me. What should I do?

Contact payroll and get your wages paid into your own account.
Start making plans to leave.
You deserve to be with someone who wants the same as you.

Open your own bank account
Get your wages paid into it
Leave the useless fucker

Is there a reason your pay goes to him? First thing to change.

Thanks to those who have responded so far. Just to let you know that it looks like the OP has left the site and won't be back to answer any questions.

My 17 year old daughter left home 6 weeks ago. We had an argument and altercation ( the day she received a lump sum from my late mother). I’ve raised her completely alone, very little support. I’ve had significant health problems and my stress has be relentless and escalated during COVID. She says she felt threatened and left. She is 18 soon. I cannot cope with us being estranged and I would love her to come home before going to university next year. We are communicating a little by text message. It’s tortuous. Any idea about what I should do? I don’t want to do anything rash. I love her so much she is my only child. I keep telling her the door is open and that I love her.