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jampot · 01/11/2004 19:09

Today is my first day back at work after a week off and I can honestly say I cannot bring myself to do anything. I have been so demotivated. I previously posted about a staff member having a Halloween party and not inviting me until the last minute after prompting and now it turns out that the firm xmas lunch/drinks is being held at such a place that makes it impossible for me to get to despite my request to have it close to the office (as everyone will be working in the morning anyway) so I can go. This is affecting me more than I feel it should. Logically I should accept that the majority of people wish for it to be 10 miles away but I honestly feel like crying - I feel so left out.

I sometimes cant bear my dh 'cos he whinges constantly.

Consequently I dont feel like I fit in anywhere and am beginning to worry. When I went to sleep last night my heart was fluttering and the same today and I sometimes feel lightheaded.

I dont know what to fix first. I know really I should just jack my job in but then I feel scared that I wont want to work and fall into a pit that I cant get myself out of .

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gothicmama · 01/11/2004 19:34

why can't you go could yu get a lift or something

jampot · 01/11/2004 19:37

no I have to collect dd from school at 3pm which is too far from my house for her to come home by herself

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gothicmama · 01/11/2004 19:41

oh right is there any other way you could go - perhaps leave early or arrange for someone else(dh )to collect dd this once. It is hard when you get torn . do yu have friends at work you could have a inprompto christmas lunch with another time

vanessa13 · 01/11/2004 20:50

in my opipion bollaks to the lot of them, if they were your mates they would of thought about you having a problem getting there and back.
you should not be made to feel like this, its wrong and out of order, i live in great yarmouth if you are near we can go out and get pissed with me shove the lot of them.
dont let them get to you you are better then that take care love thinking of you hope it works out

gothicmama · 01/11/2004 20:52

basically v13 is right they should eb more considerate - tr and find soem me time adn chill out it sounds like you need someting fro you

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