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Sorry if this is long! My DD is 10 and for the past 6 years has had a number of mental health problems, mainly anxiety and Non Epileptic seizures.
She was diagnosed with epilepsy at 4. Prior to that there were concerns about developmental delays, late walking (16 months), toe walking, coordination difficulties and unclear speech. She also had sensory issues- hated loud noises, certain materials, use to rotate feet constantly.
We did suspect she was on the spectrum but at the toddler/ early school years stage there wasn't an immediate urgency to get her assessed.
When she was 6 everything changed.
She had a tonsilectomy with a general anaesthetic and tbh, nothing was the same after that.
Academically, she began to struggle. Luckily we had contact with the neuropsychology team at the hospital and they undertook assessments.
These assessments showed that prior to age 6 she was sitting above average in IQ, when she was tested at 7 this had dropped 20 points and she was now 'quite a bit below average' School was a major source of anxiety and there were problems with her not being able to communicate she was struggling.
School weren't great tbh and it took a new head teacher for things to start becoming slightly better.
Epilepsy diagnosis is all over the place. She was diagnosed with absences and general Epilepsy, then focal seizures, then non Epileptic seizures linked to the school anxiety. She has most recently been diagnosed with Jeavons syndrome which is absence seizures with eyelid myclonia.
We wrote to the school council as we felt that there were a lot of traits that could be ASD related
We were told we would be referred to assess her communication issues and saw a SALT specialist for 6 sessions, online.
A lot of those sessions there were problems with the woman's internet so it really wasn't the best experience. My DD would answer and the video would lag, she would then change her answer and it was a bit of a disaster.
During this time she also had a follow up with neuropsychology at the hosp and they have diagnosed executive disfunction based on the decline in her IQ scores. This has been link to Epilepsy.
We heard last week that the SALT specialist had met with the wider team and it was decided that although there are 'aspects of developmental history and communication difficulty aspects that fit with ASD', there are 'other factors that better explain my DD difficulties.'
My question really is, what should I do now? I just feel doing 6 video sessions do not allow them a great understanding of the difficulties my DD faces.
I truly believe she is on the spectrum and I just don't understand the idea her difficulties 'could be better explained by other factors' and I worry this will hinder the help she gets or could get.
I know epilepsy is a co-morbid with ASD. Could I push for her to be assessed anyway?
Sorry this is so long, and I've posted here as I got no response on the SEN board
any help appreciated.