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I really don't want her to leave and i know others don't either.

Please stay Titania xxxxx

Why's she leaving??

Titania you can't leave us!!!!

I hope it's not because of the infamous thread? That's the minorities opinion

She thinks she moans too much (thanks to some insensitive person).

I have explained to her that at the mo she needs everyones support. In time when she is feeling better then she will be able to help others.

Yes do stay - did see that thread last night and didn't pass comment, but could see why you were upset, but, really, one badly worded statement (as RP herself said it was on another thread - I don't want to involve myself in the 'discussion')shouldn't be enough to make you leave when there are LOADS of others who would like you to stay. So do please re-consider - there must be heaps of reasons to stay and only one to go and that weighs in favour of staying as far as I can see.

Don't go titania

don't go titania

don't go

Please don't leave Mumsnet. Please be kind to yourself and try to understand why this person or post has upset you so much. There is so much love and understanding on this site, try to notice why the comments which were made are the only ones you can see and feel right now. When something feels personal, it just does, and it is very difficult to have any perspective. You are not just all about moaning, you have alot to offer and you must know this in yourself in order to let the words roll off of you the way those "other" people can. XX Sunny

See Titania, told you i wasn't the only one who thinks you should stay

God what a twit, there is already a don't go thread, and i wrote on it too.

You're not a twit, just kind and caring!

titania you know i don't think you should go
nutty you are wonderful

Going to add my voice here even though I have already posted on the other thread. Don't go Titania. You have so much to offer other people. If you can't moan here, where can you moan? Much better here to a bunch of hidden people than to do it in RL (that's what I think anyway).

Don't go titania

Don't go Titania!! When the subject is serious (ie NOT how to choose a diamante collar for your gerbil) then there is no such thing as moaning too much. Please stay

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Posted on the other one, but will post here just to emphasise that I don't want you to go.

have put this on the other thread as well but here goes.......

thank you ladies........just sometimes I feel as though I have lost a grip on whats real and whats not.......I cant remember what I've said half the time and I do feel like all I ever do is moan.......especially as I don't offer anything in return.......I need to think about things and sort stuff out over the next few days.......my head is so full of stuff at the moment........but thank you for all your lovely messages......

Titania

I know that you're having a really hard time at the moment, but glad you haven't left. Lots of people on here are really worried about you, me included, and if we can help at all, then we would like too.

Don't stop posting, you are not moaning, you have problems, and you do have plenty to offer, your dh and children need you, and you can help other people who are suffering like you, by telling them how you feel.

Take care.

hi titania,
I know we havent spoken much buat I have read some of your posts. Please dont let the words of one hurtfull and quite spiteful person let you make a decision. If you think about leaving and believe it's for the best than thats fine. But if you're going because of them then please stay, you have a lot of people here who will miss you and who care for you. You say you give nothing back but that is not true. You dont know how much just having someone to talk to an share things with. Also in the thread that I think this stems from, you spoke up for so many of us who are too ashamed, shy, ambarrased to say anything. Please stay.
champs xx

Titania, you don't know it but you are helping others by being so open about how you're feeling. I know you are feeling bad at the moment but we all promise you that you won't feel like this forever and talking things through really helps.

Please stay.
xx

Okay I am not really sure of the background here but just to say this. If you come on to Mumsnet, have a good moan or rant then it means your family don't get it.

Also, on here at least, I would say/reveal things I wouldn't to people who know me. That is a big pressure relief.

Those should be reasons alone to stay. If not, look at all the friends and support you have, you should be happy to be so popular and well-thought of.