What dose "you arnt the beginning and end of every thing" mean

[Meganc95]

Hello I am 25 and married for the last 6 years he comes home some times ans make me fully like utter crap , once again he come home has a fit about nothing says I'm the problem and every thing that is wrong with me my weight my parenting just every thing and I love him so much and at one point I thought he loved me but now I'm not so sure its like he just doesn't care any more he says it me but I try I really do , he says I'm controlling I dont ask where he goes who he is with I never moan if he dose go out I encourage him to go so why am I always the problem is I get that I'm not how I was but 2 kids later and getting told about my sisters looking the way they do definitely knocked the confidence from me , or am I being Pardoned freak and I am a bad partner

The person you are with should make you feel cherished and loved not “like utter crap”.
I’ve no idea if you are a bad partner but he certainly sounds like a bad one if he’s criticising you and telling you that everything is wrong with your weight, your parenting etc.
At 25 you have your whole life ahead of you, he isn’t making you happy and his actions/behaviour don't make him sound particularly happy either. His behaviour is awful if it has knocked your confidence and is making you feel paranoid, I think you need to ask yourself if you would be happier single? You are too young to spend the best years of your life miserable and being made to feel paranoid

I completely agree with the previous comment. The way he is behaving would certainly make me ask, "Don't you love me?"

You asked what "you aren't the beginning and end of everything" means. Did he say this to you, when you asked him what is wrong?

It can mean the same as "Not everything is about you." So, he might be angry or upset, but not necessarily about something you've done - it could be about work, or a friend.

It can also mean, "You're not the only person in the world." In this case, he means that the way he feels, and the things he wants out of life, should be important, just as much as what you feel and want.

The other thing it could mean is, "Oh, shut up - I don't have a good argument against what you just said, but I don't want to admit it!"

I hope you can sort things out together