My life 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[Somebodyimportant1]

Just wanna moan a bit and get things of my chest as I have no one to talk to. I Dont know where to post this but I have no one to talk to
•relationship with d love of my live broke 2 years ago. I am still very sad & can't get over it. Although there is chance we might be getting back together
• I got a letter from Recivers last month and now I am on the brink of losing my home (which live with my 2 young kids) in fact the debt is now more than what the house is worth and I can see a way out of this mess & I have nowhere to go. I have no family or friends at all.
• I have no job at all. I am disabled from a life-changing accident years ago which turned my life upside down & delayed my life. I finally graduated from uni last year and could not find a job mainly because I have no experience at all due to all the years it took me to recuperate. I went back to uni to do my Masters as I couldn't get a job and I have finished and waiting for the result and I have applied for several jobs but no luck yet.
• I am here thinking, will I lose my home, where will I go with my kids, where will start from, will I ever get a job? Will anyone be willing to give me the chance to prove myself?
• LIFE IS A BITCH
I should be down and depressed right now but I am not (maybe I am not normal) I guess I am just fed up or it's probably the faith I have in God that I will be fine.

Now, pls, Dont judge me or kick me while I am down - it's not nice at all

Wow. That is such alot. That must be overwhelming. See where you can try to start to wrestle control. Seek out the help you need where you can - in relation to debt you really need to go to gov.uk site and get in touch with their debt management plan people. They can consolidate it into one for you. It is really worth trying them.
I suggest not focusing on getting back with your ex, but getting back to you. Easier said than done but part of focusing on you, the positive in you and wrestling control out of chaos. Be kind to yourself but set small goals every day. A core action (eg advice where needed) and small tasks about you, how you do stuff you want to do differently.

I'm so sorry l, that all sounds incredibly difficult

Stepchange debt charity could be a good place to start for some debt advice (they also offer practical help in terms of budget planning and payment plans too).

Getting a job can be really hard, but you have done so well in getting your masters degree. Please don't give up, you clearly have a lot to offer.

All the best of luck.

@Milkshake7489 @HandyHerPlumbing- thanks a bunch for your advice. My solicitors are currently helping to negotiate with the lender regarding my home.
I am ashamed to say I found out I am pregnant 🤦🏽‍♀️ the last thing I need right now 🙄

I can't find the thread. I partially remember what I wrote and if it was helpful then that's great. Sadly I can't help with your other news bar to say child support payments need to be a thing. Good luck.