so p****ed off with dp.....help

[whitefeather]

so so annoyed with dp infact at this moment in time could not want to ever see him again, had row with him last night and i am still furious! had crap day at work so was totally p'd off when i got in, had already had bad day with my friend whos just found out she has pre cancerous cell and has to have op to sort it out! got home and felt a bit weepy so had a little cry to myself dp came into the bed room and shouted.. cant be fing arsed with you when your like this not staying in with your misrable face and proceeded to get ready while in mid argument putting shoes coat on while shouting and balling then just walked out... no fing idea what was wrong or why i was upset just couldnt be arsed to ask, im sick of him, sorry just needed to rant are all men so annoying

No

YES

Not this one

he hasnt even text or phoned to say sorry arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh men

Poor you, whitefeather. Sounds like both you and dp are under a lot of strain, atm. Hope you can sort it out a bit today.

Saying "no" to the last 4 words of a post without trying to address the rest is pretty annoying, StuartC, IMO.

yeah i know it doesnt help does it worst of it being... i thought i'll go out with the girls and when he comes home he'll see ive went out ... but got in at 12 and guess what he wasnt back, so that didnt work totally pissed off, not really under any strain just he's not very sympathetic a simple cuddle when i was upset could easily put things right x

Would it help for you to make the first move and give him a cuddle, even though he doesn't deserve it? I find that it's quite easy for everyone to be so huffy and hurt that no one will make the first move and then this sort of row can drag on and on...

Do you have babysitters on tap or something- impressed that you both managed to go out at the same time!

not a mummy, sorry kind of a fraud being on here, had several miscarrages but logged on here when i was first pregnant and been hooked since, no no babysitters are needed just yet anyway xx

Fair enough- not a fraud at all. Hope things get better for you today, hon.

about the cuddle no i aint going to give him one first everytime ive flew the whit flag and cuddled him he sarcastically cuddles me back tapping my back and saying ahhhhh hes a patronising pratt at times

Ive witnessed many men doing exactly what your first post described ang its because they have already planned to go out, and instead of saying "Im going out with my mates tonight see you later" for some BIZARRE reason they turn in into thier other halfs problem and its ridiculus, but ive seen it happen.
Hope you have a better day today, forget about it or ask him what his problem was, he will be all sickly sweet as hes had his night out now, so he will be trying to crawl into your good books!

write him a note .. tell him why you were upset .. tell him he has lots of making-up to do .. and you're waiting

drop big hints about jewellery

and No I don't think it is all men, but have seen it before and I also think he already had plans to go out

that had crossed my mind too i said that to my friend i just cant beleive hed leave me in that state rather than just saying hey babe the lads have asked me to go out tonight is that cool? im fine with him going out! but that had crossed my mind, he's off out tonight too, so if im lucky might get a chance on sunday to sort this mess out!

the arse has just text me asking if i made enough noise this morning while i was getting ready 4 work, and if ive cheered my misrable face up... and if my time of the month is due, honest i could punch him, glad im at work! FOAMING

LOL at your foaming! Deep breaths. Do the same to him next week.

deep breath i need a stiff drink!x

i'm pissed off with my dp right now as well can I join you in a stiff drink

glad to hear my dp isnt the only arsehole out there! im so annoyed that when i write dp as in dear partner i just wanna put p as in not dear partner! he he good job ive got mumsnet to slag him off in secret! sending a stiff drink your way what your 'p' done?

just being an a too long to write

you could think of it as d*head partner

good idea so its now my dhp ( dickhead partner) is being a total t*a good luck with yours xx

Fed up with mine 2, so I will join u both 4 a stiff drink!

we could start a mini campaign!
all you girls who are sick of your dhp let us know here and have a good winge ?

xx

bloody hell blueteddy i have just read your post no wornder you furious i'd go off it too xx u ok x

whitefeather, hope you are feeling much better. All men are the same hun. I would tell you about mine but I'll be here all day, all night....right you get the picture!

Here's too us all having a stiff drink (or two)later! Now is it red or white??

i'll have a large red please xx