2 yr old asking for a snog!!

[worriedmama]

Today my ds nearly 3 asked for a snog, he opened his mouth and tried to kiss me.When I told him it was wrong and you dont kiss like that he told me does it,i asked what else does and he started sticking his tongue in and out. is a 6 yr old girl whose house he stays in sometimes, she is a relative.Now im worried do I approach her mum or is it just playing.I am a regular poster just posting under a different name.

She's only six - probably just practising what she sees on telly with your son.

I'd be inclined not to make a big thing of it, but tell your son something that will encourage him to reject her advances??

Thats what i think,I know she is only a little girl, so I have told him If * does that again tell her shes silly and Go and tell **.

How would she know about tongues from the TV though...?

I would be worried too, wm. How well do you know her mum? How do you think she would take it?

I know her very well she is a relative so I gues I should just talk to her.

worriedmama, it would probably seem alot more relaxed to talk to her now and not let it fester.
If it gets brought up in weeks/months to come and then turns out you were worried but didn't say, she'll start to question your trust in her.

Hope you understood that

Blimey,

I would be a bit peturbed by this - and please don't be offended (since you say that the 6 year old is a relative of yours), but my first thought was how the hell did this 6 year old girl learn this?

My point is (since I wasn't very clear below), perhaps this 6 year old is being subject to an 'unhealthy influence'(perhaps an older child???, family friend) which her parents aren't aware of and they might thank you for bringing this up with them...

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