my older sisters fiance raped my little sister but shes still marrying him

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its all so screwed up. my little sister was raped by my sisters fiance a few months ago and she kept it to herself. it was only when she slit her wrists that i made her tell me what was wrong. i convinced her to tell my dad and he flipped out (understandably) he was threatening to kill him but he eventually got past that and they told my sister what happened. she said she was gonna confront him and now shes not talking to any of us. she thinks it was all dsis fault and her h2b would never o anything wrong. she is still marrying him but none of our family will be there. its her son i feel sorry for cos he is so nasty to him and my sis just lets him.

this is a rant under a different name cos i needed to see it written down to try and see how she could do this.

i am not a troll

actually, ud, there aren't ways they can prove anything after this time, and I really don't think going to the police will help.

what a horrible situation. I think all you can do is be there for your sisters, rubbish as that sounds.

hes still locked up in a state hospital (think thats what u call them) wvwn though it happened 13 years ago. so i think my sdad is looking at it like she has broken up the family (this is what she thinks)so its her fault

Your poor sister does need counselling though. She needs you too. Sounds like you've both had a raw deal out of your family, so sorry. I have a shit family too.

didn't realise it was as long ago as that. Still think she needs counselling.

yeah and i also got the blame for what happened to her when she was younger. it was me she told (think thats why she eventually told me bout this) about what happened to her and i told my mum.

wish i could just run away i know it sounds selfish but i really dont need this at the mo. i think weesis is going to a counceller and i have said she should got years ago but again things never get spoken about in my family

As I have learnt, you may run but your baggage still follows. You have to confront your problems and deal with them, there is no other solution. Sorry.

think i might go to the docs just to see what they say. its not the same as my sister but they might be able to get me some numbers. also think i want to talk to someone since ive never been allowed to. i sound pathetic but this is relly stressing me out and im studying at the mo and i cant think straight

Yup, you do need to talk to someone yourself. Go to the BBC website, they have helplines on there. Or someone who's more focused than me will be able to think of a few for you in a bit.

www.rapecrisis.org.uk/

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