Hi
I'm hoping to get some opinions. I've recently found out we are expecting surprises baby at the end of the year. We have been together just short of two years. I moved in with my partner over six months ago he bought a house before we were together this was agreed as temp measure for us both to save and buy somewhere together. I used to live alone in rented. This house is very far away from my family and friends and very close to his parents. Now we are trying to move in a rush and having disagreements over the location. I want to move close to my own mum as she is going to help me with the baby which is my first and I feel like if we don't move close to my fam and friends I will be isolated during my maternity leave and I will find it hard when he is at work.
I'm happy to move again in couple of years but as I don't know what to expect I want the support of loved ones around me. He wants to pick a random area that's neither of us know just so it's half way between both home towns I understand where he is coming from but in reality I just don't think it will work. Oh and to add we both work very close to my home town so commuting to work is very hard at the moment as the traffic is heavy.
Thank you in advance!