Hi,
My partner and I are planning to have children, but now I’m not sure whether to be with her or not. I’m in a same sex relationship.
She gets really annoyed over silly things and recently she’s got annoyed with me over things that I don’t think she should be, but then I’m not sure if actually I’m in the wrong and should just brush it off.
Last week I accidentally woke her up twice - once when I put my arm over her (she said it felt like I hit her) and the second time I shuffled back and accidentally bent her finger. I didn’t even feel her finger. She got annoyed and accused me of doing it on purpose. I have asked her why would I do it, and all she says is because it was multiple times it felt on purpose. It wouldn’t be so bad if she just felt that way at the time as it was late, but a week later and she still thinks I did it on purpose.
Then tonight we were being silly and then making each other’s faces look silly. I said she looked like someone she really doesn’t like to tease her and I thought she took it as a joke, but then it turned out she thought I had insulted her on purpose and was really annoyed.
I really don’t know what to do. We please can you help? Am I being overly sensitive to get upset that she’s accusing me of these things?
Thanks