This will be a long one.
So my partner has been off work for around 4 months with depression and was made redundant - the money is enough to allow him a few months to find him something else. But he has t applied for anything yet. I'm all for self care and taking time for yourself and I've fully supported it, but by now I was hoping he would have at least started to properly look. Instead he plays his games all the time. He has always enjoyed computer games and I'm happy he has a hobby, but now it's grinding my gears. We have a dd and I work part time so he looks after her while I'm at work, but as soon as I'm home he's straight on his computer. The days I'm off work he sits on it most of the day and all evening till 1/2 in the morning. The computer is in the front room so while I'm sat by myself watching shitty tv I've got him clicking away and talking to his friends in the background. I've been feeling a bit shit recently after finding out that it's true that you see who your true friends are after having a baby as my so called friends have bailed on all occasions for the past 4 months.
I just want some adult company and it seems the only place I get that is at work (feeling very sorry for myself atm if you couldn't tell)
Feeling better already after getting all that off my chest
