Ready to leave

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Finally seen sense and am leaveing a useless man who cannot hold down a job is like a child and has hit me twice in the past ....cannot leave till april due to contract on the house my contract ends on april and I've made arrangements to clear out bits that's mine and move in with my mum we have no joint financial commitments other than the house and I cannot afford it on my own I've sold off excess furniture and my son is now settled with his dad only me to think about booked two weeks off work ready to move I'm trying to be ok as four months is a long time to live but will soon go tonight hes told me I'm fucking thick and useless as I never let the microwave get to ping when warming something up then told me when the face cream advert on the tv came on I need a bucket full he really is that bad anyways he just started throwing bread from his tea at me yes really!!anyway I threw a jelly sweet at him and it landed in his stew he gets up punches the door and corners me!!!I'm not even reacting that's pissing him off more than reacting!!!I know I've made right choice it's just buying time!!!

Is the contract in your sole name then? Is he not bound by it as well? Tbh I don't see how you can last until April. It sounds quite dangerous.
If I was in your shoes, I'd go now. If you can pay your share of the rent you could do that....if not, notify the landlord of what's happened. If your partner's name isn't on the rent book, he should just leave and let the LL rent it out again.

I'm waiting to see what letting agent say and theres getting back to me tomorrow but he is on rent but he wont be able to afford it either I'm a months rent in advance so if I give notice at mid april end of contract I can leave asap and he has 4 weeks to sort himself out also if I say I'm leaveing he will hit me or wreck what little furniture and goods I do have and on my part time wage I will be paying rent debt for years I'm going to let him keep paying rent for next three months then so a flit take bits that's mine and go he deserves to come home one day to a empty house!I'm only taking few bits that's mine spare bed table chairs etc sofas tv kitchen stuffs his anyway xx

Make your plans and don't tell him. Don't warn him in advance that you're going. Keep it as a surprise.

Oh I intend to mummy does everything for him and shes just had to bail him out with his car again she doesn't like me as I went round one day after he hit me and a punch on the arm apparently wasnt bad enough and I'm a drama queen so I wont even engage with them!!