Unreasonable friends, mutual mums

[Andrei123]

I have a close friend I have known for 20 years. She has 2 young children and I have one 9 months old.

During her first pregnancy I was there daily supported her financially due to family fall out and helped her on her feet few months after I was expecting and rarely heard from her unless she wanted to go out and expecting me to pay as she had no money.. understanding she has new baby.

She has now recently had a second baby, she has a partner but a lot of financial problems due to spending ect every occasion rarely now same insinuation I have no money but want to go out..

Now she seems to have a problem with my bringing my daughter along if we do meet but she can her 2 young kids And this has been going on for the past 6 months because she finds 3 to much and I don’t know how to go about it ? Then she goes quiet if I say yes. This is my closest friend of 20 years and it’s weird way to act :/

Wow. If she finds 3 too much ask her to find someone to look after one of hers. Words fail me how cheeky some ppl can be

I’ve been asking the same question for weeks but to no avail. Yet she calls up stressed she gets no time or her own space. Then when you are available it’s your kids can come but not mine lol... and I’m expected to pay 😆

Her behaviour is very very rude and unreasonable. Join a playgroup and meet some new friends.

Very selfish

Possibly dislikes your child

Possibly an immature sense of "ownership" over you, wanting your focus to be on her and her DC solely. Doesn't want to acknowledge an equal interest.