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Love triangle!

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Lanny81 · 05/11/2019 10:37

Hi guys,
My DD (18) has found herself in a bit of a pickle..basically shes in a love triangle with her ex of 6 months and another guy. Before anyone says anything, no im not interfering in her love life. Shes asked for my advice and Im stuck. I have no idea what to advise her so I thought I'd ask you lovely ladies(and men) for your thoughts...
So here's the lowdown...ex is a pratt. Nice guy but a pratt, kept ending it with her then wanting her back. Was messaging other girls ALL THE TIME. Hes what I call an accidental fuckboy. Not the typical slimy fuckboy but the all round good guy, works hard etc. Doesn't realise hes being a fuxkboy but he is. Anyway they split for good in September but he will not leave her alone. Gets super jealous when he sees another guy so much as look at her. Now hes declaring his undying love again and wants her back...BUT shes kinda met someone else.
This other guy is in their kinda circle, but not if u know what I mean. They liked each other from a distance before she met the pratt. Recently they have been meeting up cos shes trying to move on from the ex. They like each other but haven't said it. Theres definitely a chemistry there. But its awkward because they all know each other. Her ex was her first love, first sexual experience. Hes wanting her back but shes stuck. Any advice?

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Lanny81 · 05/11/2019 10:38

Just to add, the ex knows nothing about her meeting the other guy but the other guy knows about the ex

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ProfessionalBoss · 27/11/2019 12:10

The ex doesn't want her, but he sure as hell doesn't want anybody else to have her. I've been in that position before, and whilst she might remember all the good times they had as a couple, it's important that she remembers (or is reminded) that he is an ex for a reason. This new guy might not be her lifelong partner either, but until she can break the cycle with her ex, she probably won't find the happiness she deserves.

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