Hi,
So the MIL has been pretty controlling in the past, so much so myself and DH have had to ask her to take a step back. However things get rocky as she generally goes behind my back and DH tends to take her side.
My most recent issue is DH has a big birthday coming up and shes taken it upon herself to book a large family holiday. While I really do appreciate the gesture, at no point has she involved me or asked me anything about it. Am I being unreasonable to want to be consulted over any plans I may have had for my DH?
I'm getting fed up approaching the same scenario over and over again. I'm not co sulted on anything and it's becoming a problem in our relationship also.
Please help!