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Driving Test- Failed 3 times. I'm a mess.

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adeolaoa · 25/03/2019 17:57

Hi guys.
I'm new to this group and I must say reading people's experiences about their driving test has helped me with coping a bit with my failures.
I've failed 3 times and I've started telling people I've passed because I'm so ashamed of myself.
All 3 times have been in automatic cars which makes it even more shameful. And the failures are due to different things.
Have another test on Thursday and my heart literally starts beating so fast that I wake up from sleep.
I'm normally not an anxious person and I've never failed any exam before but this driving test has destroyed my self esteem so much. I have cried and written horrible things to myself because of it. In addition, I'm very broke. I cannot even get support from peers because I told everyone I've passed because of shame.
I have a car in my driveway I cannot drive because of this monstrous test.
I just needed to vent where nobody knows me.

First failure- 1 major 3 minors. I stopped at a traffic light to turn right because it turned red. Apparently, I'm meant to have moved on a red light once I'm at the junction.

Second failure- 2 majors 6 minors. I failed in the first few seconds of the test as I drove on the wrong side of the road to exit the driving test centre. Also, I was on a wrong road to turn right because cars covered the arrows on the ground and I went straight instead but I still got a major.

Third failure- 1 major 10 minors. This was just few days ago. I drove 35MPH in a 30MPH zone. I saw 40MPH sign ahead and thought to catch up lest I get marked for hesitating.

Fourth test is in a few days and I am sleep-deprived. My chest hurts and I've watched all videos watchable on YouTube.

I'm desperate to pass because of work and apart from that, I've had a horrible year so far and feel stuck. I just need a little bit of light.
Sad

OP posts:
Happysaurus · 25/03/2019 19:48

I have failed 4 times, I felt exactly like you but have just kept going. The more practise I have the more confident I feel. I know I can drive now, it’s just passing the test!
I also read a lot about rescue remedy helping to calm peoples nerves and gave it a try on my last test. I definitely found it helped.
Good luck! Hoping the next one is a pass for you! Flowers

adeolaoa · 28/03/2019 11:24

Thank you so much. I PASSED TODAY!!!!! I'm so relieved!

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Happysaurus · 02/04/2019 08:23

Well done FlowersFlowersGrin

EduCated · 02/04/2019 08:30

Oh was about to write something encouraging and supportive, then saw your update! Well done from a fifth time passer Wink Flowers

myusernameisnotmyusername · 02/04/2019 10:04

Well done! I passed on my 4th test!

TeenTimesTwo · 02/04/2019 10:07

I too was about to write something encouraging, but instead:
WELL DONE Flowers Wine Smile

HappydaysArehere · 07/04/2019 08:06

Whoopee! Well done.

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