Hello. I’m new here.. I just thought I might be able to get a females point of view in some relationship matters?! My ex left me some months ago now.. I had suspicions of another man.. a mutual friend. My suspicions have been confirmed from things I hear from my children when I see them. Although at first, things were difficult between us with obviously her leaving, things were also amicable on our communication front and around the children. Then there was a sudden turning point from her and almost a complete shut down from me being involved in her and the children’s lives. I believe it was to mask this new relationship. My question is, and I’m happy to add more details.. do you think this is more of a rebound thing or something more planned and calculated on her part. I get the feeling she doesn’t like the fact that the children still have such a good time with their dad and I do everything I possibly can for them when they’re with me. Is she using this man to lean on for support or is it deeper? I know there is no going back but it feels like I’m just seeking some clarity or perhaps how she might be acting/ thinking in this situation?! 🤷♂️.